25 May 2011

Greetings


What would you rather be called: 
Beautiful or Bitch?
Gorgeous or Shlaaag?
Darling or Whore?

Girls, say things without thinking to each other nowadays as a greeting or as an "affectionate" way of saying something to them or along those lines. But how many of us actually like being called these words when, in all truth and honesty, they're offensive. I hate being called those kind of names. I get enough of that from the girls who hate me, why do I need it from people who like me?

I've gone round to my mates, and have said to each and every one of them and asked each and every one of them not to call me any of those words. And what hurt me the most is that they all asked why.

Why? Because when someone says those words to me, I think they mean it. To me their too light a word a word just to say that casually. And I had to say that. And they still looked at me like I was weird. Until I told my best friend why (which, no offence but is waaaaaaaaay to personal for you to know ;) ) and he helped me stop them calling me that. And it stopped them saying to their other friends as well.

I'm proud to say, I've stopped just a small amount of people to not say those words as "affectionate" greetings. I'm proud of that. Because those words are too common among friends now.


Just think before you say those words even as a "joke" because sometimes words do have an effect even if you dont mean it.. :)

- BlackSaphirax -